ļ»æEpisode 241
Title: Transformative Healing with Dr. Nick & Dr. Nicole
Host: Kayla Weidner
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Transcription:
Kayla Weidner (00:00.212)
Welcome back to another episode of Integrative You Radio. In this very unique edition, I am Kayla and your host today, but by no means the keynote. I work behind the scenes at Integrative You and Integrative You Radio, and I had the opportunity to interview three very inspiring people who just so happen to be private clients of Dr. Nick and Dr. Nicole. For those of you listening who have been considering working with Dr. Nick and Dr. Nicole,
This is for you.
Kayla Weidner (00:47.886)
How has working with Dr. Nick and Dr. Nicole changed your human experience or your family's human experience? So my business has catapulted my relationship with my fiance. It's really hard to articulate, but I'm just different and everybody feels it. But in a good way. You know what I mean?
Just like a, I'm more grounded. You know, it's interesting. I think when I first came to them, I was, you know, very anxious about my son's issues. I was anxious about work. It was just, it was just like constantly, my cup was full, that anything that would be added to my cup, the cup would overflow. I think working on myself in all different ways with my health.
And, you know, with all of the coaching that they've done, I feel like I've emptied the cup. So when something goes into it, I can adjust it the way I know I can with strength, with focus, with love and with being present. And, you know, and they definitely did that. I am a completely different person. I'm still working, you know, it's obviously it's an ever evolving process, but.
You know, the person who walked in the door when my son was five and the person who you're speaking to now when my son is 14, I'm a completely different person. And for the better. For the better. They've given me life. They've like, they've allowed me to feel positive again. They've given me back my life. They've given me back my family's life and they've given us a light of positivity. What
What parts of your life are more in sync, parts that used to be chaotic or sacrificed? Well, for sure, you know, we're not always playing catch up. I can think ahead, but be present. And I'm also making time and space for myself. I think working with them personally, I sort of look at life from a different lens now than before in my life. I...
Kayla Weidner (03:08.75)
I tended to be reactive, dramatic, and it was more so, you know, what was happening to me versus actually why it was happening to me. And now I have the tools, I feel like, to sort of remove the emotional aspect and just say, Hey, like, what is this situation trying to tell me? You know, and the same thing with my child, he'll have a tantrum and we say, Okay, so what is the situation trying to teach us? And what can we learn from this?
versus being like, oh my God, you know, like we can all, you know, we want to be there to support our children, but how, how we show up for them and the people we love is, is, uh, that's what I've taken from this is that I've found the best version of myself and I'm sure I'm going to continue to grow in that. But for right now, the best version of myself that I can be for my family and vice versa.
You know, as a parent, you don't really think about yourself first. You think about taking care of your kid and just get through life and know that's how it goes. And they showed me that I need to take care of myself to be better for my son. And, you know, what was life changing is that, you know, at the time I was just thinking about the next step, the next step, and through so many different, you know, means they showed me how to be present. And being present for him,
has been life -changing for me too, because I'm enjoying it more. Sometimes when there are issues, you're not even there with your child. You're just trying to get to the next thing and you forget about your happiness too. And I think that working with them, they've shown me that caring about your happiness and what matters to you and finding your highest values, which is life -changing.
you realize that you could be more present and you can give more. When you're constantly pulling out of a bucket that's empty, you don't have as much to offer your family and your loved ones, your friends, anyone, you know? So. I love that you mentioned that you were able to be a more present parent because that resonates, I think, with a lot of us, mothers, me included, where we don't really sit down and think, am I being present right now?
Kayla Weidner (05:30.414)
And it's because we're burning the candle at every end, right? I mean, I put myself at the back burner for so long, but what I have gotten from just the experience of my two family members being a patient is nothing sort of miraculous for me. And when you move to the front burner, it is the most enlightening, amazing experience of your life. And you'll be so thankful that you did because I just feel so positive. I feel so energized about,
what's to come because of Nick and Nicole's incredible insight and their support, we are able to move forward as a family dynamic in the most positive way, right? So for anyone that's put themselves in the back burner, they're having some health issues. They can't see their future, they're definitely like going to the wrong doctors. They've educated my family, they've educated us in a way that,
that a textbook or an article in a health magazine could never do. You know, they have, they brought us to the other side. You know, they've really let us see something that we never were able to see before. And that's something that's really neat. I have found in these really inspiring interviews that I've been doing, everyone is so educated. They come onto this call and it sounds like they could write the book. I mean,
So much to say about this. So health isn't just about balancing your minerals or taking a probiotic. It's about your mental capacity, your emotional, you have to heal your trauma. And we didn't know that that's how you heal until we met Nick and Nicole and realized that you cannot heal unless you heal holistically. And what I mean by that, again, is that physical, mental, emotional trauma that is.
holding you back that's living in your body that's literally holding you back. So that was such an epiphany working with them to be able to see the bigger picture and understand the healing is a bigger picture. So for us, that human experience, like we wouldn't be where we are today without the insight, not just the medical advice, but the human insight of Nick and Nicole. What I think is also very special about the two of them is that, um,
Kayla Weidner (07:58.19)
They've done this to self -worth. They've done the inner work. So I respect that it's not someone who's, you know, helping you and sort of preaching this is the way it goes and this is what you do, but they've never done it. And it's so much more authentic and real and inspiring. And, um, and it helps, it helps you help me realize that it could be done. You know, and I'd love that about them.
Did you find clarity on what were some of your biggest limits and beliefs that were programmed so deeply and which of them, if not all, I don't know, can we get them all? But which limits have dropped away? I know I'm working a lot with Dr. Nicole in regard to a career change that I've wanted to do for forever and was afraid to. You know, those limiting beliefs.
And, you know, I was always like a dreamer, I had my vision, but you don't realize how deep your programming is from your childhood, from just the world, you know? Self -doubt, self -limiting beliefs, you know, that imposter syndrome, those types of things, they don't exist anymore. Um...
And even though I would say that I had a pretty strong foundation of being like confident, but it was an underlying deep rooted things from my childhood that I didn't even know existed within me that we were able to bring to the surface and really through meditation and practice, sort of address those things and then balance them out to the point where they're just non existent. And then before you know it, you're like, wow, something that would have been so
crippling before is not. And everything then just is in alignment. And I started going, I went back to life coach school and, and I'm working on this wonderful business, this wonderful community center with life coaching and all these other things that have a holistic band and, and I'm so excited about it. And have to say, Dr. Nicole working with me with that, and she's the most inspiring person. I just, I get so much. I can't wait for my sessions with her. Really, it's not so, but she's,
Kayla Weidner (10:17.486)
She's so down to earth, yet so inspiring and she's able to pull things out of you that you don't realize you there. And we just had a session yesterday and it was just so inspiring. It really helps me along the path. That's scary because I have a lot of, you know, still, I'm still working on everything, fears and all of that, but they're dropping away very quickly and I would have never expected to be as far as I am now.
you know in the process so it's it's it's really great one of the things that i had a really hard time with was fear and it's just non -existent and i wouldn't even pursue any of these things and i wouldn't even explore them and i've come leaps and bounds in the fear department and i'm able to recognize that's fear you know this that's a self -limiting this is not healthy this is not okay and i can address it right in the moment rather than stewing in it
In fact, I act on it and I push through it even harder because I can recognize it from just not an emotional place at all. It's just, it just is and it's going to happen and it's okay. And I'm going to just, I'm going to work through it. And I have the tools now to sort of do that. What would you say to the person who may be feeling like there always has to be a sacrifice for a success? What would you say to them? My mom always used to say, you know, you, you, you come this way once in life and um,
You really deserve that. Everyone deserves to live their best life and to live it. And an important thing I think I also want to say to parents, sometimes kids listen to you 50%. Maybe they listen to what you have to say, but they watch you 100 % of the time. And what I want more than anything from my son is for him to live his best life. And if he watches mom and dad,
and even learns about highest values when he's younger, he's 14 and such a crucial age, I feel like maybe he won't make as many mistakes as I did. Or maybe he will learn how to bounce from it and learn and evolve because life isn't gonna be all, it's definitely a 50 -50 split, but at least the 50 that's good should be really good. Yeah, I mean, but everybody has to know though that working with Nick and Nicole,
Kayla Weidner (12:32.782)
is totally a game changer, it's a life changer, but you have to put in the work too. It's not just one -sided. You don't go to them and they heal you. You heal yourself by putting in the work and working with Nick and Nicole. Like you work side by side together as a team. You're not just gonna go there and like they're magically gonna heal you. You're going to magically heal as a team. Like it's a, I just.
People have to know that you have to put the work in. You do have to walk away from a session with them and say, okay, I'm going to prioritize these things. Like I'm going to do this. And you know, sometimes people are like, I don't have time for this. Well, if you want to get to 2 .0, you got to find the time and make the time. And then you start making the time and you're like, wait, this feels so amazing. I just lost myself. But what I want to say to people, and even if they're not parents, even if they're just, they put maybe their work first or...
You know, they put success first. Like all that is important, of course. But if you're not happy, if you're not alive and vibrant for life, then there's something that's missing. So paying attention to the things that are most important to you, really, it's okay to take care of yourself first. In fact, it's, it's, it's a must find out what your highest values are, pursue them and don't stop until you do.
and you're going to notice that everything around you starts working in synchronicity and it just flows and it's...
That's what I would say, stop putting yourself last and put yourself first and it's okay to do that.